Hey, We are here for you. Family like that, in the end, Don't matter. Your dad's side is exactly my my dad's side. Grandma and all. I haven't seen her in about 2 years now. The last time she came by was because her and my aunt were mad at my uncle, and they came threating us and our pets. Its so stupid. I also agree with Best. Don't worry about it. They are not worth it.