Good Karma, I agree with what Ann and the others have said. I was addicted to meth for a few years and what made me want to change was losing things. Fortunately for myself, I didn't have to lose much to make me want to change, but there is nothing you can do to make him want to change. I do still remember what a hold the drug had over me, and to this day I'm still surprised at how it took a hold on me in. In 30 seconds my life was changed. You can just take care of yourself and let him do what he needs to do. Over the years, I've had to deal with many addicts in my life as well, and they can be very strong in their plight. Best thing to do is stay is keep as much distance as you can, even when it's family. Love and light to you....