I do need support and I know it. I don't have a clue what to do (or more likely, not do) and it's all the same stuff I e been hearing. Leave-then he will see what's at stake... I don't think that's the right answer, but I get a lot more about what to make him do than what to do for me or what to leave alone.
Thanks for the welcome. I really hope I can hear some truth here and get some ides for myself too.