Oh wow, bold move JW. Let her SHOW you, believe nothing she says, it's all BS. Let her actions over a long time. How crazy is that comment she made....you divorcing her for crazy stuff is why she had an affair. She is basically saying, it is your fault I slept with other people. That is insane, but it is what cheaters do...blameshifting. Hang in there JW, you are showing some real strength.