Originally Posted by
Indigochild 
Good on you, just be careful not to slip in to the same trap when he ups his manipulation in response to your indifference. Stay strong and remember you deserve more :-)
Everyone says that, that he will try harder with manipulation and he will eventually will send me something, or he will spam me with msgs, that his personality is the problem here, plus the drugs. That i am the one that has to go because he will never be able to leave me. He will continue the same circle again and again. God bless my therapist and my brain that has done all the work and now i can understand things.
This is not LOVE. This is "I NEED YOU" and i do not want ANYONE to NEED me,or me to NEED him.
And also i would stay if he wanted support with detox/rehab or something like that. But he just prefers to hide things from me and that means that is not willing to change ****.