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Hi everybody!
I recently posted a thread called “what role to play in his life” well I decided he should not be in my life. The issue I am facing now is how do I remove him without pushing him back from his process and feeling guilty? It’s very hard for me to cut people off because I always feel guilty but honestly I need him out of my life. I’m not healthy. I have to take things to sleep. I have no motivation anymore. He wants me to visit him in rehab but honestly I don’t want to. I need to be away from him, all he’s done is bring me heartache. Thank you to everybody who responded last time. You all gave me a perspective. I just need advice on how to be mature about this. My end goal is to not have him in my life for awhile, but I’m scared because last time his family was mean to me and for some reason it really hurt. Please let me know if you have any ideas.