Originally Posted by
B1ueEyes 
This is so true I found everything was about him was never ever about me... his drama that he had caused but his drinking ...his stress his anxiety days where I had to support didn’t matter i suffered With anxiety.
his angry outbursts where everything was my fault I was the one that was making him stressed it was all my fault in his eyes.
the days he wasn’t drinking I’d be ignored while he sat there stuck to his phone and I’d think why am I even here it’s souls destroying and draining
Yes my ABF is self absorbed like this. In the morning when he is sober, he sits and plays solitaire over and over until it's "beer thirty" for him. Very little talking and I had learned to adapt to all of these behaviors! Very sick and twisted we become without even realizing it. This has been the best thread and I plan to read it often!