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Replace Drinking with hitting you... One in the same really. Isn't he always the taker? Shouldn't the man be the one who protects? Who are you trying to be? God? His parents? I ask these questions because an alcoholic or addict WILL say ANYTHING to keep that addition and person around. HE has NO idea how to love. None. He isn't in sound mind and so his words are just words.
Addiction isn't rational. How do you understand something that isn't rational?
I feel for you but if you keep going back it WILL NOT get any better, only worse. I'm sorry! Truly..
AG