That was always how I felt and that he never took the time for himself. Instead, he always tries to help others. I do feel that he takes his stress out on me with his sponsees. To have one seems to be the normal? I am not sure. But to have 3 or 4 at a time seems a bit much. I have spoken to a therapist about it and she feels it is a way for him to forget about his own recovery and struggles and to try to help others. Thoughts?? Thank you for the response!