Originally Posted by
Obladi 
That's my goal exactly. It's almost autonomic, this reaction. My experience is that once I figure out where my reactions are rooted, I am then much more likely to not even form an attachment.
Good, just be patient. Keep going and it'll work out. Create a safe zone inside and around by caring for yourself in this way of developing in-sight and project that caring to all around. This'll reduce internal, and external, tension, increase security and thus enable deeper in-sight and relaxation.
