AA is not the only answer to alcoholism, even if they are an alcoholic. AA does not have a monopoly on recovery. The Big Book even states that. Statistics bear this out too, that the majority of people get sober without AA. Full disclosure: I personally attend AA. But the dogma and group think like you are demonstrating are an issue many people have cited.
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awuh1 
There seems to be some step 1 issues here. If you don't think you are an alcoholic ok. Sounds like AA has helped you and if you decide to stop attending meetings that's a good thing to take away from the experience. If you think there is any chance that you are in fact an alcoholic I'd put off that decision to end your participation... at least till that question is resolved.