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Carpathia Hi. I’m writing a few months after your post. I hope you see it. Currently I’m reading a book called The Power Of Attachment. One take-away for those of us who have avoidant attachment traits (and it seems to me the lost child is an avoidant-type role) is to go toward people, reach out when we feel like withdrawing. The book contains specific examples of how to do this which is helpful.
Only saw your response today. I will look for that book. I'm definitely an avoidant type!