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Old 05-24-2020, 08:00 PM
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woodlandlost
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Bernadette and Schnappie99 Thanks so much for the replies. Today, through my divorce recovery group I connected with another member who is a long time recovering codie and has tapped me into a mens alanon group online. Going to attend on Tuesday. I truly need to up my support and recovery. The time for hoping long past its due date. And also long past its due date is the non-stop second guessing of myself, I can always check my thinking with other people if need be. But I can't validate my thinking through her.

This comment really jumped out at me:
The old relationship with her is over, and will never be back. It may be that it never was what you thought it was.

It was one of the things I held onto...maybe things could be salvaged.
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