Hi Billy M, nice to hear from you...I knew you'd come back, it's your shifts that mean you don't post for a few days!
Tink I agree about relaxing. I feel SO much more relaxed right now.
And Bilr, my dads main advice for me (seriously, this is it!) when I started work: first time you make a cup of tea make a horrible brew...they'll never ask you again. Maybe like your cooking...
Im having fleeting idealised thoughts of drinking in the future...it's taken 85 days for my AV to wake up. It's not bothering me as the chance of me drinking today are absolutely zero.
Had a great chat with this chap about his separation and divorce, he was really helpful. Gives me something to work from.