Well you certainly can't stay with him because of the car. Is the car in your name? If so can you perhaps return to the dealership and see what they will offer you for it now?If it was a private sale, perhaps check out what you could sell it for (should do this either way).Then take possession of the car and sell it. You may have to pay off a small balance, perhaps that is financially viable for you.You won't win against the drugs.Hang in there, keep posting. You may also want to check out Alanon or Nar Anon online meetings.