Originally Posted by
Mamabear116 
If he could get his life together, I would love for my son to have a father. I just don’t see that happening though.
We all hope that the alcoholics with whom we are involved would figure it out and become good people, partners and parents; however this is very unlikely for many of them. Of course some do. There is a saying here, "Hope is not a plan." Go ahead and listen to that hope and then make a plan based on the elements you can control.