I was the "identified patient" and a very strong possibility of being a lost child as well. Not fun. I need to re read some of these things and figure out where my family of origin went so wrong, if it's even possible. We had one mean matriarch and a father who never came home, rarely. I didn't blame him. I wouldn't want to come home to my mom either in those days.
After getting some support here, I realize how helpful and important it is to have this growing up. My love, prayers and grief who never experienced this growing up.
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