Pizza...I don't know if you are aware, but, we have an extensive library of articles about alcoholism and the effects on the loved ones, right here on this forum. There are over one hundred articles …..enough to read and digest one every single day.....lol....
It is contained within the stickies...just above the threads, on the main page.
For your convenience, I am going to give you a following link directly to them.
They are referred to as "Classic Readings".....just so you know....
I doubt that there is any aspect of the effects on the loved ones that is not addressed somewhere in this "library"...….
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...c-reading.html (Classic Reading)