There are other meeting based groups with people who could benefit from hearing another alcoholic's experiences (Refuge Recovery was mentioned), yet thee conversation is always steered back to what is wrong with the people who disagree with anything AA related.
You're welcome to post here Cosima, but to be fair, this is the Secular 12 Step Recovery forum.
The Secular forums are a great place to start discussion threads on non 12 step principles.
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