Originally Posted by
SmartRose 
I guess I didn't want to have to go that route, but I guess it may come down to that.
SmartRose, I'm not in any position to tell you what to do. It isn't my place to do so. At the same time, I want to remind you that you're not powerless. You hold the most important cards. So when you're ready to, think about how you'd pull this off. Think about what has to be in place before you pull the trigger.
And remember you're not alone here by any means. You've got us.