Not really for all men. Some men text me and it does nothing for me. It's for men I find attractive, and I find a lot of addicts attractive. Hence why this is my 3rd round of the steps.
Yeah I get nervous about 13th stepping as I could see the men flirt a bit and I don't want to go that path.
But yeah this guy really has my attention. I wish I could have spent some time with him in person, as that changes things since he's long distance now (he moved last summer). I went to visit a guy in another state that I had a thing for, and that visit changed things. He had some annoying habits, so that made him less alluring. The long distance guys have something, because I wouldn't have seen his in person habits merely over a text.