Originally Posted by
Wombaticus 
Wow. Clowery, that's staggering. Dropped you, picked you up and shook you around in circles. He says he can't live by your rules. Does that mean he is not willing to address his drinking?
Definitely what he means. Drinking of course is not the issue to him. My unwillingness to accept the drinking is the issue. He says he’s tried everything to make this marriage work but I don’t try. He has tried everything except the one thing that can help