Old 02-05-2020, 05:39 PM
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Ariesagain
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Oh, you poor thing. I can feel your pain from here.

I wish I could tell you that it’s all going to work out, but honestly? The odds are very much against it. If you read more threads on this forum you’ll see how very, very typical this kind of disappearing act is. Even if he does come back, it’s going to happen again...some of us have been through it a dozen times.

This has nothing to do with you. It doesn’t matter what you say, who you are, what you do, how much you want to fix him...he’s an addict and he’s chosen his addiction over your relationship.

It has nothing to do with love. It has nothing to do with his new prescription and whether they gave it to him in rehab...he’s taking it. If it’s not that drug, it’ll be something else.

Please try to stop holding out hope for a magical outcome and try to focus on how you can heal and move on. It’s not your fault...it’s the equivalent of being hit by a bus. What I can tell you is that it won’t hurt like this forever, it just feels that way.

Do you have access to a therapist or a counseling service?

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