Old 02-01-2020, 01:20 PM
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helpfultoothers
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Originally Posted by Alexbaby View Post
Hi Helpful,

I am sorry that you too had to experience this. It has not been easy, I have been finding some great information on SR, so that is helping me.

Thankfully, he has blocked me from everything and has "moved on", so I won't have to go through the anguish of him re-appearing. I see a lot of other people who have gone through that and I can only imagine the amount of heartbreak that must bring.

I think our natural instinct is to think "what is wrong with me" when they leave for someone else, but I am learning slowly, there was nothing wrong with me, other than loving the wrong person

You say meetings? What type of meetings? Any suggestions on readings that might help me?

Thanks so much
There's nothing wrong with you. You honestly dodged a bullet.

Al-Anon and Nar-Anon are helpful meetings. CODA is also a good one.

Hang in there! One day at a time
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