Love that update Jd!! And like nez, I too am a word focused person. Don't get me started on trigger. Or slip. Or bottom. Anyhoo...
I learned that sponsors typically talk from their experience, so maybe this guy is feeling tingles of his own fears or such - I might too, when someone talks of leaving AA, for lack of a better way to say it IMO. I think my biggest worry and share FOR them is what mine would likely be: what is their plan?
I have a very good friend who isn't an AA person, but he is a recovery group person I met thru the restaurant industry group I lead - and he is also a "seeker" of recovery, and the kind of balance and fullness you mention.
Keep going, friend.