Old 01-21-2020, 11:47 AM
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trailmix
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Hi helpful and welcome to SR, sorry for what brings you here.

Have you ever read a book by Melody Beattie called Codependent no More? It's often recommended here and you might find a lot of really good suggestions about boundaries etc that might help.

Why did he block you, well I think he was pretty clear that he is not in any place for a relationship right now. As for will he come back, who knows, but why would you want to see him really anyway?

It's kind of impossible to be "friends" only when you have had zero time away from the start of this "romantic" relationship you have. Sometimes people can strike up a friendship but that is normally after a period of time away to distance themselves from the feelings they once had.

I'm not sure how his friend is in the picture here but you might do well to stay away from a relationship like the one you just left?

Discussing all this with your therapist in detail is a really good idea and I'm glad you also have that kind of support, it takes time to get over a relationship and heal from it.
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