hi all,

im seeking some advice on parenting/custody agreements.

upon lawyers advice, on trying to negotiate with my STBXAH about custody & what vistation looks like. I’m trying to base it on some info I’ve read. STBXAH has been an active alcoholic til 2 months ago & is rather dismissive on the impact the alcohol has had on the home environment and his parenting. long story cut short- he’s reluctantly agreed to 6 months supervised then to utilise a breathalyser for unsupervised contact (there is no soberlink in my country) but is unwilling to do it for a long period. May I ask- how long did you have it in place for? Months/years/forever?

My argument is that if he is sober- why wouldn’t you want to demonstrate that?!

Id appreciate any info or advice on this

thanks in advance ❤️