The following day, I came home from work and he looked like he had seen a ghost. He told me to sit down, that he wasn't able to eat or sleep and that this was physiologically affecting him: he thought we need to break up.
He came home every night (although late) and I didn’t notice erratic behavior, though I never knew him while he was using, and I realize now that he’s a much more convincing liar than I thought possible.
hmmm, sounds like someone might be doing some drugs? coke? meth? erratic behavior, unable to eat or sleep, cutting off "normal" relations to protect the using.
from a former crackhead.....take it as you will.