Been living this nightmare for 10 years. Sober, relapse, sober, relapse. We are currently in relaspe mode. She is 30. This time however is different because we now have an innocent child along for the roller coaster ride. We are seeing an attorney on Monday to discuss our options. We were looking forward to retirement. Our likely future? Raising a 2 year old. Where will our AD go? Jail? The streets? A friends couch? I don't know but we have a child to protect and that is what we have to do. Wish we would have kicked her out years ago.
My advice? Take the door to her bedroom off the hinges. Take YOUR home BACK. If she can't live by your rules then tell her to leave. And if you can't do that well...be prepared to enter my world because if your child is female and an addict, more likely than not, raising a grandchild is in your future.