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Old 12-25-2019, 09:56 AM
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AnvilheadII
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well, for starters, you two are not a thing again - you've been talking and taking it slow. again. this is a pattern. no one is committed to anyone or anything.

you decide to see his band play. you went on your own.

meanwhile, another female he has maintained contact with, also decides to show up, on her own.

it sounds like she had already decided to attend, and then you made the same decision, so he texted to you to let you know this.

you decided to proceed.

she left, for whatever reasons. he texted her. which i doubt was done with pure altruistic motives.

he's got you both on the hook. he probably didn't plan for you both to be in the same place at the same time.

you get to decide how long you want to play the game. be strung along. get disappointed. keep trying over and over with one person who to date hasn't exactly beamed with stability, commitment, direction or focus. you can move on at any time. any.time.
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