Hi Meghan, sorry he let you down again.
Yes, people in active addiction cannot be depended on. Are you sure it's only been a week of relapse?
I think he should have at least a solid year of sobriety/recovery before you can look to him for anything perhaps?
I just started a thread in the F&F of Alcoholics forum here:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...-holidays.html (Holidays, what holidays?)
For anyone wanting to post whatever over the holiday or just get support, feel free to join in if you like!
For more support, are there any other family members you can call on? Get an invitation last minute to a friend's house (if you even feel like doing any of that).