Originally Posted by
aabh 
He decided to cease communication for the time being to supposedly get himself re-centered.
I'm sure you are hurting over this and I'm sorry.
I think as you take a few days you will find yourself getting more clarity. That doesn't mean it won't hurt! It just does, as I'm sure you know.
Addiction is selfish, recovery is selfish. Recovery generally needs to be selfish because it is a tough battle, assuming that is what he is doing. I would absolutely take everything with a grain of salt until you see his actions.
How are you doing. Do you have any supports in place where you live, friends, family? It's important to surround yourself with people who understand as well. Here at SR as well as Nar-Anon and Al-Anon (doesn't matter which btw, addiction is addiction).