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Old 12-05-2019, 05:59 AM
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CT4
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I’m hoping that a week ago was the last time he ever drinks again. He said he was done so we will see. Actions/words, I get it. I think being exposed by so many really hit hard for him as is very telling he’s not “handling” it well. I went back to the addiction specialist yesterday who gave me some wisdom to add to what I get here. He said it’s hopefully early enough in husbands relapse that he can catch himself and move forward. He summarizes our meetings and sends me this later;
“Try really hard to see the positive. It’s easy to see the negative but takes work to see the little wins. This is a little win. You have to give him a little road to try and turn around.”

Time will tell. We go tonight to our marriage therapist so that ought to be fun. I don’t know what to expect for that. So many things to talk about.

Last night I was sos busy with daughter that I didn’t think about what’s been happening in the last couple of weeks. Daughter needed to see that too. Dad was happy, helping her with homework and smiling. Will it last? Who knows.
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