Thanks for all the advice. Attended my first Al-Anon meeting today and I'm feeling quite overwhelmed and terribly sad. I also feel quite stupid that I wasted so much of my life without seeing the signs. I don't see a clear path to a decent future anymore and I'm even more conflicted about what to do right now. I do plan to see a counselor on my own as well as continued attendance at Al-Anon. I just don't know how long I want to stick it out as I know from what I've read here and heard today that it is just going to get worse. Why should I stick around for that? Am I considering throwing in the towel too early?