hi Res01, glad you found us but sorry for what brings you here of course.
As Sleepyhollo said, actions, not words. It's easy to say - I will quit drinking, I'll get help, I'll go to AA but those are just intentions. Until he leaves the house and goes to AA or therapy or whatever he chooses, they remain just nice thoughts.
There are AA meetings every day usually and if you live in a city, probably several times a day.
If someone is verbally abusive to you every day, perhaps it's time to move? Do you have friends or family you could stay with or perhaps he could go and stay with his family?
There is no reason for you to continue to put up with that kind of abuse.
What would you like to do?
If you read the other threads here I'm sure there are many you will be able to relate to as well.