Spot on! Thank you!
The therapist does know the background as I have met with her before. I talked to her today and told her about Thanksgiving and the confirmation I got. She’s well aware of him but I have no idea how she will handle it.
Im heartbroken. He has been amazing for years. He took such pride in his sobriety. He used to help other men from church with their sobriety. This is seriously a bad nightmare. His brother passed away last year from drug and alcohol abuse (he comes from a very long line of addicts) and that is when I noticed the beginning of the spiral. He can’t cope with reality. I seriously believe that if I push on him about the drinking he would choose divorce and disintegrating his family before getting help.