I am sorry, Faith, and my prayers go out for your other daughter, that this will make her stronger in her own recovery.
And Seren, I am so sorry about your stepson. Just when we think it cannot get worse...it does. I keep both of you in my prayers too.
I don't post on this forum much, but will take some time and come update soon about my own son...who still struggles but who is still alive and that's good to know. I keep my distance, I had a choice and decided to let time show me what to do, and time showed me that the only thing that had changed was me.
I just cannot buy a ticket each the circus comes to town. As dear Amy aka Impurrfect used to say "Not my circus, not my monkeys".
God has brought me to a good and safe place with all this. And I have given God my son's care, and left it between them.
Back soon. Hugs to all the parents, prayers for all of our children.