I agree with Newhope----if he hasn't returned your car yet report it (and your purse and phone) as stolen. Keep an eye on your credit/debit cards.
What a jerk he is! Glad his stuff is piled up outside for him.
I'm so glad you have the tools to deal with this by cutting him out of your life NOW instead of dragging it out for years.
Thanks for sharing and keep us posted.