I can understand that. That is an ouch.
As you said though, the terrible things about your relationship were many.
His behaviour was pretty appalling Thlayli,
So I'm guessing he was at a bar downtown and found some poor woman who is now going to get a dose of being around him. Aren't you actually glad it's not you.
I know at some point the relationship wasn't all negatives, however, alcoholism, as you know is a progressive illness, who he was when he left a few months ago is who is is right now today. He didn't suddenly become a fine upstanding guy ready for a relationship. I actually went back and read some of your older threads, honestly I don't see the potential at all. He is not relationship material.
Oh and the link to the post juju mentioned:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...ink-about.html (Being rejected by the reject...another way to think about it.)