Thlayli,
I know it''s hard to see someone that you have had 11 years of your life with holding hands with another person after only 3 months of moving out. I know you think to your self he has done so many terrible things to me. Why is it that he is out of my life, still causing me so much hurt. Unlike the alcoholic we can't just throw it out the window so easily. We want to have belief in people that they due care about us and want to be better for us. That is why we stay with the alcoholic for so long. I know see him holding hands with another person is hard, but you will get past it. You are in a better place right now. Just keep being strong and know we are here to help you through this.