'Sobriety' ( actually detox) may happen in jail because there is no choice.
But, recovery can only happen by getting help.
He is a long way from accepting his addiction. If he knew how bad his life is he would never want his daughter to see him as he really is now. Keep him away until he seeks treatment and straightens his mess out. You do not need him around right now. You are only going to hear and see more alcoholic BS.