Sorry I didn't reply sooner but I've been very busy lately.
Finances. Yuck!!! I am just realizing how much my husband had been spending on alcohol (a few JDs a night in the local bar or at Penn Staion before getting on the railroad for home really add up!).
The process started slowly so I really didn't attibute the increased spending to alcohol. Since 9/11 things have changed a lot in lower manhattan (he works right there). Lunches have gotten even more expensive (that was his excuse for the increased spending). I guess I was lucky that I didn't realize it until he stopped drinking (almost 30 days now).
I think you should probably find out how to separate your finances (different accounts). SPeak to an accountant or a lawyer or someone else that may have gone through this. You need to protect and take care of yourself.
Hugs and lots of happy thoughts are being sent your way.
NoDoubt