Originally Posted by
BackandScared 
I have accepted alcohol fits the category, with the massive difference that I am not missing out on anything. I have found myself really missing alcohol in specific situations (similar to the one you are describing). The day after I realised I had missed nothing at all. The glass of wine did not change the place (sharing time with your sister, the location, etc). The only thing that changes is how you feel the day after.
This is a TERRIFIC way to think about it. Thank you, everyone, for your continued support. Your words are such a supportive, inspiring, integral part of my success. I’m eternally grateful.