I speak as someone who relapsed month after month then had a period of long term years sobriety. Now back in the relapsing month after month period.
I can see both sides but I think we all have to take personal responsibility make decisions and take action for our own sobriety. Yes of course we need help and support and this site is wonderful. But being given help and suggestions and advice is pretty fruitless if it is always ignored. We need to take responsibility for our own recovery make the effort and have some intention of taking action for recovery