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Help. I decided that I do not want to give my husband money for beer. He just called me on the phone and asked me where the checks were(remember I hid them?) and I told him I do not want to spend my money on beer. He said he will go across town and take money out of his retirement account. He did this once this year and that will cost us penalities when we file the taxes this year. I don't want him to do that again. How can I have a relationship with someone like this? How can I be in the position to saying you cant have money? I feel so much pressure from him. I don't even want to go home. Am I being unreasonable? He has no money, he owes 10K on a credit card and the monthly payment of $400 is due soon. And he wants me to give him $5-$10 a day to drink! I feel so nervous and upset. help.