I think, at this point... it’s about brainstorming where you and your daughter could potentially live temporarily... either family, friends or other resources. Don’t want to presume that’s the next step but I’m worried you really won’t be able to move forward... living in the house, under his financial control. I don’t have a child but had many tough medical challenges... I was once financially dependent on my abusive XAGF. It was tough beyond words. The feeling of hopelessness is pretty strong because the environment is so toxic and unpredictable.

Many women (who have gone through exactly what you’re feeling/going through) on this forum will provide more concrete support suggestions for you, if/when you’re ready. And maybe you’re not ready, yet. That’s OK, we are all here for you.

Sending you peace and courage tonight.