Been there, done that, including the gallbladder surgery.
Finally, it was time to have it removed and there was fever and there was no other option other than to go to the ER. I did, got tired of waiting, went home, went to a walk clinic the next day, he sent me back to the ER, got seen right away virtually and they said come back tomorrow for an ultra-sound. Then they gave me morphine. which took away the pain and the anxiety.
Next morning ultra sound then surgery at 9 PM. After rounds the next day I went home.
Now I don't know what horror stories you have been privy to but this is a very common surgery.
Remember once you get to the clinic or hospital they actually do understand anxiety.
Sure, you probably do need to have it removed, you're probably right but what I meant is that is still your choice, you can keep it and take your chances is what I meant. Plus you don't actually know how bad or good it might be. It might need surgery, it might only need medication, you won't know until you see him.
Yes, it sucks to be in that position but you will get through it.