I'm sorry you have to deal with this - I have no experience to share.
I know you don't want advice but I'd get another legal opinion. Doesn't seem right (as in legal) that there's no avenues to fight it.
Just to look at things from another angle tho - I don't drive, by choice. I've had relationships, I'm married now. I have a great social life. I get lifts, I catch cabs and other public transport.
A mate of mine bicycles everywhere. Also by choice.
If you're feeling really low about this please look at getting some help.
I'm sure this is traumatic and I'm not downplaying your pain at all - but it's not worth losing your life over.
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...ease-read.html
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