Thanks to you both.

To be clear his entire note was not about me. He wants his health to be better and he is definitely tired of drinking. I was not giving him an ultimatum. I was simply saying i will continue with my plan to separate if change does not occur. I told him his drinking is his issue but that it is up to him for himself. Not for me. And that a text is not enough. There is a ton of work to do.

For the record i am not scared of him and this is not a police kind of situation. He is 6’5 and 270 i am 5’3” and he is mire afraid of me. (Just trying to add a little humor here)