Do alcoholics mirror to appear normal?
Do they actually have a personality left?
I don't know why this sprung to mind but during a brief period where me and EXAH were hanging out I noticed he kind of mimiced my lifestyle (not the tea totaller one). I'd gotten into tropical plants, air plants etc. We stopped by a garden center, for me to grab something and all of a sudden he got his own trolley and he was buying the basics etc I had, tools, etc.
He's always been a really impulsive shopper and when we were married he'd be forever trying to get me to shop.. So he could.
It's like he thought.. This is what normal is.. I'll do this too. He went back to his enabler shortly after and his gardening stopped.
Anybody else noticed this mirroring lifestyle? He's done this heaps actually.. Gotten into my sports, loses himself in my interests.